It actually doesn’t take too much
to make a woman happy. It just so happens that a lot of guys in the world are
clueless when it comes to really figuring out what their women need in
relationships. Don’t make that mistake. Be aware of what really makes your
woman tick. The better you know how to make your girl happy, the happier you
are going to be as well. And don’t worry. There’s no need to over-complicate
things. Here are a few tips that you could follow to keep your woman happy in
1. Take her out on fun dates.
Dates are great. They are one of the rare opportunities in a
relationship where you just get to block out all the noise and chatter of the
adult world so that you can be alone with one another. It’s where you can
really enjoy each other’s company. And so it’s only right that you actually try
your best to make your dates fun and interesting. Don’t be content with taking
her out for a boring dinner all the time. Mix things up. Put some creativity
into it. Let her know that you still want to surprise her with your creativity.
2. Make it a point to be communicative with her.
Communication is always going to be important in any kind of
romantic relationship. You aren’t mind-readers. You’re not going to be able to
figure out what your partner is thinking or saying if you don’t talk about it.
So always be communicative. Don’t expect her to just know what you want and
need from her. Be honest and open. Talk to her constantly and always keep her
in the loop with regards to your life.
3. Always make her feel like you’re there for her whenever
she needs you.
Dependability is another very important aspect of any
healthy relationship. She is always going to have to feel like you’re there for
her. You must always be able to give her the safety and security that she needs
from this relationship. You can’t make her happy if you are constantly forcing
her to feel like you could walk out on her at any minute. Let her know that you
really have her back and that you’re in it for as long as you need to be.
4. Give her as much attention as she needs.
A woman might tell you she needs more love and attention.
She might even tell you that she wants a man who’s honest and faithful. And at
other times, she might tell you that all she wants is to feel safe and secure.
It’s important, in all of these situations, not to focus on what a woman says
she wants but to instead focus on what she needs.
Will giving a woman more attention make her feel more
attracted to you? Will giving a woman a sense of safety and security make you
more attractive as a man? Does going out of your way to be true, honest, and
faithful make a woman want you more? The answer to all of these questions is a
resounding no. Be attentive. Learn to
listen. Stop being so selfish. She has her own personal needs and you have to
be able to address them as well. It can’t always just be about what you want
out of the relationship.
5. Try your best to get her friends and family to like you.
Her friends and her family are the most important people in
her life. And since you’re also going to be an important person to her, it only
makes sense that you make an effort to integrate yourself in her already
existent social life. You have to make an effort to try to get her friends and
family to like you. She will be very happy with whatever effort you try to put
6. Don’t be withholding with your expressions of love.
Stop playing your games. Stop playing hard to get. You’re
already in a relationship together. There’s no point in trying to feign
indifference and disinterest anymore. If you love her, and if you want her to
love you in return, then let her know. Be expressive with your emotions. Don’t
withhold them. Shower her with lots of love and affection and she is bound to
do the same for you as well.
7. Meet her sexual needs and desires as well.
Sex is an often overlooked aspect of relationships. A lot of
couples think that it’s just something that they have to get over with every
now and then. But sex is so much more than that. It’s a physical manifestation
of the emotional bond and connection between two people. It’s the ultimate show
of trust and humility between two physical forces. And all she really wants
from you is to be generous. Give as much as you’re willing to get in the
8. Trust and respect her.
Don’t demean and belittle her. Don’t treat her like a child.
Put her on equal footing with you. Respect her as a mature individual who is in
a mature relationship with you.
9. Apologize whenever you screw up.
Don’t let your pride get in the way of her happiness. There
are so many relationships all over the world that crumble because of oversized
egos. Learn to just swallow your pride and own up to whatever mistakes or
shortcomings you might have in the relationship. Apologize whenever you wrong
her. It might not be easy to earn her forgiveness. But it’s definitely a good
step to getting her to be happy with you again.
10. Stay loyal to her.
You can easily make a woman fall on love with you, but it
takes extra effort to keep her feeling that way about you for longer. Loyalty
isn’t bought with money, it is a product of the amount of honest effort you put
into a relationship towards making your partner happy.
In recent weeks, I have received lots of mail from young
people asking how they can keep their woman loyal. It’s not rocket science, so
I’ll break it down in four simple sub topics. You just make sure you try to
imbibe and actually put them to practice after reading
This is something that should be plainly obvious. You can’t
expect your girl to be happy if you are unfaithful to her. Be committed to her
and to her alone. Don’t make her feel like she’s a mere option to you. Always
make her feel like a true priority.